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Marva Collins’ Way

5 September 2009

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Chicago businesswoman Marva Collins brought logic to learning when she rocked the Windy City years ago with her radically rational approach to education, as Susan Crawford, RN, recently reminded readers on her Rational Parenting List (RPL). Like the basketball coach in one of my favorite sports-themed movies, Coach Carter, Ms. Collins confronted the reality of government-run education in the ghetto with reason, optimism, and determination, not determinism.

Teaching that one should examine ideas before accepting them, she started teaching troubled students in her own home, opened her own school, wrote a book, Marva Collins’ Way, and became the subject of a television movie starring Cicely Tyson. Today, she insists that “there is a brilliant child locked inside every student.”

Explaining her program on her Web site, Ms. Collins writes: “The child is taught to refer to what has been learned previously to support an opinion. References come from many different sources, from poetry, newspaper editorials, magazines, great speeches, novels, or any other written material. Everything everywhere provides potentially excellent material for developing reasoning skills…Textbook word-for-word, lock-step methods never make good critical thinkers. There is a difference between word reading and word understanding. And, there is a difference between knowing how to read, and loving to read.”

Learn more about Marva Collins’ philosophy here.

Patriotic Parents Pull Kids from School over Presidential Address

3 September 2009

In the wake of news that the President of the United States will deliver a speech urging government control of medicine, a growing number of parents are planning to pull their children from government-controlled schools on Tuesday, September 8, when the President delivers another speech. The White House announced some time ago that President Barack Obama’s address to primary education students would be carried live to the nation’s government schools, with government-established lesson plans, one of which originally assigned students to “write letters to themselves about what they can do to help the president.” Obama’s speech will be shown live on the White House Web site and on C-SPAN at noon ET on Sept. 8.

Not to my kids, many Americans are saying.

“Districts in states including Texas, Illinois, Minnesota, Missouri, Virginia, Wisconsin have decided not to show the speech to students. Others are still thinking it over or are letting parents have their kids opt out,” Associated Press (AP) reports. Government school districts are apparently responding to the opposition. A district near Houston, Texas, plans to show the American president’s speech but, in the words of its spokeswoman, “we would not force them to listen.”

Gee, thanks. This is another example of the Obama administration’s determination to use every available means to indoctrinate the nation’s youth, as the Bush administration did to promote similar expansion of government controls, and use propaganda. This time, patriotic Americans are speaking up, taking action, and actively opposing the government’s rules.

Good for their kids and good for America. We need such principled acts of opposition to government control of our lives more desperately than ever. In fact, the Republican Party, which is dominated by those who would implement government control for God or Judeo-Christianity, should learn a lesson from the patriotic parents. The Grand Old Party (GOP) would be wise to repudiate its religionism, stand united for inalienable individual rights (which inherently means the right to an abortion), and unanimously walk out of President Obama’s socialized medicine speech to Congress the following night.

Book Marks: Boys, Quakes and Cooking

26 May 2009

Unfortunately, I cannot recommend Michael Gurian’s The Purpose of Boys (Jossey-Bass, $ 26.95), because the author completely endorses the view that the purpose of boys—and presumably girls—is, of course, service to others. Self-denial runs throughout this thoughtful book, which appealed to me because the author, a family therapist, focuses on the development of boys in an often anti-boy culture. Dr. Gurian encourages parents and boys to embrace heroism—a rare advocacy these days. Here, too, Dr. Gurian’s definition falls short of man as a rational and selfish human being. He writes that he advises patients to think of the term HEROIC as an acronym for Honorable, Enterprising, Responsible, Original, Intimate, and Creative. Excellent ideals but check out what he means by being responsible: “a boy who cares about others’ needs, and becomes a man of service.” That means the boy must put others first—and himself last—in service of … whom? What? Why? Dr. Gurian’s right that boys are being seriously neglected. Sacrifice of boys (or girls) is not the cure.

A good beginner’s book for kids who want to understand earthquakes—which we’ve been experiencing here in southern California lately—is Earthquake! ($ 3.99, Aladdin Paperbacks) which is part of Simon & Schuster’s Natural Disasters series. The large print, 32-page edition by Marion Dane Bauer, with color illustrations by John Wallace, is scientific about how the earth moves, with facts about the earth’s movement presented in sequence with the three major types of fault movements. A few pages cover various myths about quakes, correctly described as “made up” stories, and the book includes a note to parents and teachers and sound advice on what to do during a quake. Earthquake! is Level One of the four levels in the publisher’s Ready-to-Read series, which means longer sentences and increased vocabulary for the beginning reader.

The Family Chef ($ 27.95, Celebra) by sisters Jill and Jewels Elmore contains very healthy soup, salad and family meal recipes for adults, babies and kids and it’s a well-organized cookbook for those who seek to replicate the food consumed by shapely actress Jennifer Aniston, who hired them and wrote the Foreword. Short notes are personal, fun, and sometimes educational, though the print is too small so use eyeglasses or contacts while cooking if you wear them. With a table of contents with chapter titles such as “Go, Fish!”, lots of white space and color photographs for each recipe, this is a handy kitchen reference for making relatively simple, light meals (assuming the reader is already familiar with different types of lettuce such as mache, Grenoble, and Parella) in international styles. I like the resources section, which provides addresses, Web sites and telephone numbers for the Elmore ladies’ favorite grocers, utensils and ingredients. Also included in The Family Chef: an index and a listing of their favorite food and cooking books—and movies (No Reservations, Ratatouille, and Lasse Hallstrom’s Chocolat, all highly recommended by me, too, especially Chocolat!)

Book Marks

20 March 2009

This is the Firefighter

For a simple and straightforward children’s book, This is the Firefighter (Disney/Hyperion) is a good, illustrated story for kids aged four through eight. The 32-page book, written by New York City writer Laura Godwin with illustrations by New York City artist Julian Hector, went on sale this week. The story of a mid-city fire—and how a squad of firemen respond—is likely to hold a child’s interest. The narrative in rhyme is both strong and suspenseful: “This is the station. This is the bell. And this is the signal that all is not well.” Pictures match the copy, with cute and clever touches, from a lady in curlers on a cellular phone to a firetruck Dalmatian that covers his eyes during the plot’s climax. There’s enough going on for repeat readings, though the fire itself is a bit underplayed and, contrary to the title, the focus is on the squad, not on the individual. Nevertheless, his actions are heroic and treated as such and the happy ending delivers a sunny city with a towering skyscraper.

Book Marks

13 March 2009

Inventions

Inventions is one of Simon and Schuster’s InSiders series of educational books for young readers. Parents could do worse than having this 64-page edition for $ 16.99 on hand. Introducing the concept of an invention with the term’s Latin origins—it means to find or come upon—each invention gets a two-page spread with colorful, computer-generated illustrations and informative captions and copy. Subjects in the squarely shaped volume include the wheel, telescope, engine, bionics, trains, camera and computer. There’s also a glossary, index and a timeline. A word of caution: Inventions tends to downplay the role of the inventor. Readers are encouraged to use Inventions as a springboard for further research and readings into each entry’s history, development and application.

As promised, I saw my first horror movie in years this week. Readers might be surprised at the response. Read my review of Rogue Pictures’ The Last House on the Left, opening today, here.

Slumdog Millionaire and Rational Parenting

7 January 2009

Slumdog Millionaire

The highly touted Slumdog Millionaire is consistent, purposeful and predictable, though it is not my type of movie. The story of a child in the slums of Bombay (now called Mumbai), India, is a slice of low life that thrusts itself from inexplicable terror to inexplicable paradise, which makes it arbitrary and thus terribly uninvolving. What’s more, the visuals are vile and characters—wayward kids—are two-dimensional. They deliberate and make choices, but their future is fundamentally determined; an inexplicably corrupt society, making inexplicable progress, inexplicably turns for or against them.

The subtitled Slumdog Millionaire is also revolting, with numerous scenes depicting abuse, mutilation and torture of children, mostly boys (this widely praised picture again demonstrates Hollywood’s double standard, as Hounddog was vilified and blocked due to a single, organic child rape scene). Beatings, wild dogs, eyes being gouged out with kitchen utensils, sex slavery, burning flesh—this movie is repulsive, dumping a child in feces for laughs and delivering the misery to squeeze an artificially happy ending out of the last few minutes. The girl barely thinks, let alone speaks, and the boy, who becomes fixated on her after his mother dies, shuffles from crisis to crisis—and both of them are inexplicably controlled by a self-destructive older brother who kneels, prays and erupts with the phrase “God is great!” between inexplicable acts of good and evil.

The attention-deficient Slumdog Millionaire feels like it’s made for television, which explains why it uses a TV show (India’s variation of ABC’s Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?) as a framing device. The gimmick, not character, is the hook. As such, Slumdog Millionaire is pure multiple choice—cheat, get lucky, be a genius or admit that life is rigged—and, with three out of four quickly discarded, the obvious final answer is something of a bore.

For those seeking answers to the day-to-day problems of raising healthy children the Rational Parenting List (RPL) is an uncomplicated, affordable, low-volume e-mail forum. Though created for parents who are Objectivist, it is also useful for non-parents, like me, and for non-Objectivists. RPL is moderated by Susan Crawford, RN, a wife and mother who has written and lectured on raising and educating children. Posts are typically cogent, informative and insightful. Discussion threads—about bed-wetting, hitting in school, discussing sex, politics and death with one’s child—are usually brief and polite. I especially like that issues are conducted in the proper spirit, granting a wide berth for making mistakes, which seems a crucial approach to parenting, a serious, potentially wonderful choice that can also be agonizingly difficult. In this sense, Susan’s RPL, fostering a kind, practical approach, is a respite as well as a resource. Those interested should write to rplist@aol.com.

Republican National Guilt Show, Thoughts on Caylee

1 September 2008

Repulican National Convention

The Republicans aren’t so much postponing their “serving a cause greater than self-interest” convention in Minnesota as they are recasting the nightmarish affair as a charity drive, laying on (unearned) guilt trip after guilt trip about a category 1 hurricane hundreds of miles away that has nothing to do with nominating a presidential ticket. They are blatantly grandstanding, using the Republican-controlled government, i.e., federal and state officials, to promote a political agenda—isn’t that illegal?—and proving they are the more consistent party of altruism, in case expansion of Medicare, aid to Africa and Christian missions of sacrifice in Iraq and elsewhere left any doubt. What a farce.

Hardly noticed this week was the news (reported on cable news networks) that the apparently missing Orlando, Florida, toddler named Caylee, whose mother refuses to cooperate with police, was an unwanted pregnancy. The mother—who appears to have murdered her child—wanted to put the child up for adoption; the maternal grandmother reportedly intervened, insisting that the mother birth and raise Caylee.

To me, this is another result of the anti-abortion philosophy being insidiously but widely accepted by the American people. Abortions are barely taught in medical school and fewer doctors perform the procedure than ever—try finding a clinic where abortions are performed—and the act has been thoroughly stigmatized by the religionists, who have all but eradicated any trace of acceptable abortion in the United States. What seems to have happened to Caylee is what happens when people accept the anti-abortion creed that a woman is a birthing vessel, not a being of volitional consciousness, on earth to procreate. If she’s guilty, she should be severely punished, but the mother clearly should never have been encouraged, let alone pressured, to bear and raise children; she should have been counseled to choose—including abortion—what to do with the unwanted pregnancy for herself. I suspect the maternal grandmother knows—and is responsible for—much more than is presently known, and I wonder if Caylee’s mother knew first hand what it means to be unwanted.